It’s amazing that when experts speak of “loving for a lifetime,” they offer readers statistics. This is absolutely the opposite of what love is! These experts says after time passes passion declines. The problem is, the article was more likely written by someone who has not had the blessing of being in love, and staying there. All relationships whether just budding or years that holds memories has their own stories, their own paths. But to say to love for a lifetime is impossible, they have no definition of eternal love. This is unconditional, overlooking faults and shortcomings but loving the very essence of the person because they are who they are. The ability to look at these faults and give a reasoning..no not an excuse, but a reason to love them regardless of their imperfections. Love them because somewhere, some how, you are connected by the pure intimacy that your two souls are sensing that they have found home. Even when you have not seen them and days runs by that turns to weeks, months, and even years. Others may spark your attention momentarily but hasn’t awaken that part of you that says this is your peace. You won’t find statistics to speak on those numbers, because this is rare and often said to be fairy tales. No matter what anyone says to me, I have found, embraced and will cherish my gift of having the blessing to love for a lifetime…

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