Forever More…

It’s amazing that when experts speak of “loving for a lifetime,” they offer readers statistics. This is absolutely the opposite of what love is! These experts says after time passes passion declines. The problem is, the article was more likely written by someone who has not had the blessing of being in love, and staying there. All relationships whether just budding or years that holds memories has their own stories, their own paths. But to say to love for a lifetime is impossible, they have no definition of eternal love. This is unconditional, overlooking faults and shortcomings but loving the very essence of the person because they are who they are. The ability to look at these faults and give a reasoning..no not an excuse, but a reason to love them regardless of their imperfections. Love them because somewhere, some how, you are connected by the pure intimacy that your two souls are sensing that they have found home. Even when you have not seen them and days runs by that turns to weeks, months, and even years. Others may spark your attention momentarily but hasn’t awaken that part of you that says this is your peace. You won’t find statistics to speak on those numbers, because this is rare and often said to be fairy tales. No matter what anyone says to me, I have found, embraced and will cherish my gift of having the blessing to love for a lifetime…

#wontandcantchangemyheart

Times Up

What are you waiting for? Change? It won’t happen if you’re doing the same thing you did yesterday or last week. Whether you’re waiting for that perfect time to apply for that job, or waiting for him or her to call…you can take the first step in a new direction if you really wanted to. Life is all about expecting the unexpected but are you willing to make a change? Don’t wait. Change directions and watch your happiness come from a place you’ve wished you’ve never waited for!

#walkingaway

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Let’s Talk About It…

Recently, I had a conversation with a friend. He was a little down about not having a “love” for the holidays. Now before you start asking questions, let me assure you this nice young man wanted to have a “love” anytime, not just for the holidays. It got me to thinking… Here is a quality, nice looking guy who has no children, has his own place, works very hard and makes great money. Yet he was stressed and upset about not  having a woman in his life. I’ve had many people tell me advice and how to feel about certain things and situations and even tried to make me feel bad for felling that way. At that time, all I could do was say, “hey, don’t worry. Everyone that meets and knows you instantly loves you. Hell, I love you!” But that was no better then what others had told me before. Instead, I should have just listened. 

What I know is after finally being back to my original person, no longer attached, I am taking the time out to enjoy me! Don’t get me wrong, single life is great, but I understand those things he is missing and I wish he gets that soon from someone that will appreciate everything he has to offer. I should have told him, don’t allow anyone to change you. And if you keep reaching out to someone, and they are as unresponsive as an animal corpse that has been sitting outside the rode for a few weeks, keep moving and looking ahead! Do not be like Lot’s wife and look back because everything you have left behind and everyone that is no longer there for you should be a past treasured memory that gets better when you don’t moonwalk into your history. 

And to you out there that has been holding on for someone that you constantly have to prove your love to …or even your worth, (Which should never be compromised by how others see or feel about you) release them. And when you do so you are releasing yourself. For my friend who want that shared life and love with someone, enjoy today, and wait for your tomorrow without sadness because it hasn’t approached you yet. In every season, there is a reason…