WHERE I USE TO THINK IT WAS A CURSE TO LOVE SO HARD, AND FORGET SO EASILY,
I NOW REALIZE THAT IT WAS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE. I’M THANKFUL FOR A HEART THAT IS PURE AND I GIVE,(AND FOR AS LONG AS I COULD REMEMBER) FORGAVE THOSE WHOM MAY NOT DESERVE IT BUT IT HAS TAUGHT ME THAT IT IS NOT WRONG IN SEEING THE GOOD IN THEM. EVEN WHEN THEY CAN’T SEE IT IN THEMSELVES. ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR SOMETHING OTHER THEN THE MATERIAL THINGS THAT LIE ON YOUR BACK, OR THE VEHICLES IN YOUR DRIVEWAY? ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR THE PAIN AND DISAPPOINTMENT THAT HAS LEAD YOU TO BECOME A STRONGER PERSON? A MORE APPRECIATIVE PERSON? TRIALS, HURT AND TRIBULATIONS ISN’T THE JOURNEY TO A NO END SOLUTION. IT SHOULD EVENTUALLY LEAD YOU TO A PATH OF ENLIGHTENMENT. ONE THAT YOU SHOULD SEE AS A LESSON THAT THE HEART CAN’T BREAK BUT PUMPS HARDER TO FIND WHAT REALLY BRINGS YOU JOY. TO THE WOMAN WHOM THOUGHT SHE FOUND LOVE, AND WENT OUT OF HER WAY TO PROVE SHE IS ENOUGH AND LOVED HIM….DISAPPOINTMENT SHOULD NOT BREAK AND STOP YOU! BE THANKFUL THAT YOU HAD LOVE TO GIVE, THE ENERGY TO GIVE…YOU MADE A WAY OUT OF NO WAY…AND YET THERE YOU ARE STILL STANDING. SO MANY OF US LOOK AT WHAT OTHERS TOOK US THROUGH INSTEAD OF LOOKING AROUND AND AHEAD AND SAYING LOOK WHERE I AM NOW. STILL STANDING! BE THANKFUL FOR THE MULTITUDE OF LOVE FROM THOSE THAT TRULY APPRECIATE AND CARE ABOUT YOUR HEART. TO THAT MAN, WHO HAS BEEN STRUGGLING TO BE AND DO RIGHT BY HER, YET YOU CAN’T PLEASE HER…LOOK AT ALL THE LOVE YOU CAN GIVE UNCONDITIONALLY. BE THANKFUL THAT YOU HAVE THE CHARACTER TO NOT LET IT CHANGE YOU BECAUSE YOUR SOUL MATE COULD BE THE ONE THAT YOU OVERLOOKED.THE ONE THAT FEEDS YOUR SOUL, AND HAVE FAITH IN YOU..AND YOU HAVE SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE. SO MUCH TO BE THANKFUL FOR.

THANKSGIVING SHOULDN’T BE JUST ONE DAY. WE SHOULD REFLECT EVERYDAY AND BE HONORED TO HAVE OUR CHARACTER,OUR LOVE,JOY AND PAIN TO ENDURE AND SHARE WITH THOSE THAT REALLY ARE IN OUR CORNER. WHEN WE DO THIS, KNOW OUR WORTH, WE WILL BE THANKFUL FOR MORE THEN WHAT THE EYE CAN SEE. WE WILL SEE WHAT IT IS TO BE PURE IN HEART, SOUL AND MIND.

I see and hear you and yes with great prayers my friends I asked God to put in my heart what can I tell her/him that can give a little hope. Let’s just say we all have our moments and I can relate to almost everyone of the issues that we have spoken about. No this is not just for you, trust me when I say, you aren’t the only person going through this but I just want you to know I am still praying for all of our breakthroughs or EUREKA moments to come in. Much Love from me to you…

Just when you thought, “I can’t take anymore, this is the last straw!” There is a breaking point indeed but you can’t give up. There is so much more life ahead and your purpose in life wasn’t to be born, fail and then die! It’s so much love out there for you that the hurt you feel now is temporary. Yes, I know at this point you can’t remember the last time you were happy, but that’s how the enemy wants your mind to be. Just remembering all the times that you failed, all the times you were used, abused and discarded when you served your purpose for people you so deeply cared for and loved. JUST DON’T DIE! I had been reading and listening to Joyce Meyers, T.D. JAKES along with praying and reading my Bible faithfully when it dawned on me that sometimes we have to LET GO, ACCEPT SOME OF THE BLAME, AND PREPARE. My dear friends, let go of the hurt.So we’ve made the mistakes, been hurt and may have incurred some scaring from the people we hold most dear. Let that go and stop rehearsing and reciting to others on what happened, how it made you feel and even how you plan to react! YOU are keeping this pain in your mind, your heart and your soul…how can you expect to heal when you keep picking at the scar? Accept your part of the blame! I don’t care if you say that “you were used, they treated you a certain way, and all you tried to do was be there for them to prove your love.” If it wasn’t received by them how you wanted and you didn’t get the response or the returned love, WHY ARE YOU CRYING EVERY NIGHT? WHY ARE YOU POINTING THE FINGERS JUST AT THEM? There was a point in that friendship,relationship,and even if it was at a position at the job you didn’t receive that you knew it may not happen the way you want it to go. Accept that maybe you are placing your hopes and dreams in something that wasn’t at this time for you, accept the outcome! Don’t go and call your friends and complain on how much you put into this, what you did to make it better and how you won’t love again or try to reach that position you really deserve. Your destination may have not been with them or at that position! WE GET SO UPSET ON OUR FAILED PLANS THAT WE NEVER THOUGHT MAYBE IT WASN’T GOD’S PLAN FOR US. PREPARE!!!! Oh you have been going through pure hell fighting yourself, your emotions, and trying so hard to keep faith when every road you’ve taken is blocked. When you’re at your most weakest point, when you least expect it, that’s when you’ll be released and you’ll see and feel the fruits of your labor give birth to more than what you’ve ever hoped for. That’s when your struggles will be forgotten and you’ll wonder what it was that kept you from this wondrous place in your life. JUST DON’T DIE. DON’T GIVE UP. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP LOOKING FORWARD AND DON’T LOOK BACK AT WHAT COULD,SHOULD OR WOULD HAVE BEEN! It didn’t happen, and YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY THAT YOU REALLY COULDN’T MAKE IT HAPPEN..YOU’LL BE BLESSED WITH THAT SOMEONE THAT IS A BLESSING TO YOU AND YOU FOR THEM. THAT POSITION YOU WANTED, YOU’LL BE OVER…JUST HOLD ON AND DON’T DIE..

Loving unconditionally…and those who are on the receiving end will think you will always be there.Maybe so. However, trust me, as that loving person if it’s not always reciprocated you tend to feel alone. By all means this doesn’t mean stop loving hard…just love harder towards someone or something that gives back. As I read and hear the situations that we all let take what should be our greatest moments in life away, I notice the wasted times we allowed to past while we think of what we can do to make others love us as we love them! There’s no perfect timing, no perfect place then right here and right now! You’ve waited! I’ve waited…for what? Happiness, joy and that complete feeling? Well when it’s not guaranteed to come today or any other day… SO what am I saying? Don’t wait for her or him to text or call you to tell you that you’re on their mind, they appreciate you and that you’re special…Look in the mirror and tell yourself you’re worth more than an every other day text, call or a once in a while hug…You can give so much to someone that needs to hear a good word, or see your smile..that extra mile you’ve ran for so long to prove your worth to that one person..could and should have been to someone that just needed five minutes of your time. WE shouldn’t take THESE short days for granted and sure as hell shouldn’t be the ones taken for granted either…LIVE life with as many LAUGHING moments possible with those who really want your LOVE!

Much love from me to all of you…